Surgery or no surgery
Posted: Wed Jul 11, 2018 9:53 am
Hi All,
I am a female from the UK and I have been reading stuff on this forum for the last 12 months and I am finally ready to ask for some advice because I just don't know what to do.
Had a definite diagnosis last year of PNE, from a doctor in the UK and the pain is in my rectum. I have had ganglion block and 2 transvaginal nerve block and none have eased the pain. I started physio last year and my symptoms eased a bit but since I have been having the injections I feel like I have just been left to see if they work. I have just started physio again but only had a few sessions so not made any difference yet but I don't know if I have been left too long and everything has seized up.
My life at the moment consists of office work part time stood up for most of it and then having to lie down on my side when I get home and I am usually a positive person but at the moment it's beating me
I think the worst bit is getting your hopes up when doctors tell you that after a few injections things should start to ease up but over the last 12 months I have gone backwards. I have had to stop driving and even walking is affecting me.
I am usually a fit healthy middle aged woman and a lot of the pain used to come from haemorrhoids and then I have had 2 anal stretches because of the haemorrhoids and trouble with constipation. So I think the damage has come from there.
I feel pressure from my family now because I can't go for meals, cinema and family gathering and I am usually the life and soul of the party, my family think I can just go to France have the operation, recover and then you will be back to normal.The doctor has mentioned about France but has since said he has had a patient that has been for the operation and still has to go back to him for injections. He has also said I would still struggle to sit down after the operation so that has confused me even more.
So I just feel that my family think that I am not helping myself because I am not willing to go for an operation that I don't know if it will work or make me worse. This year after all the injections etc I am scared of anyone touching me now but I don't want to stay like this so I am just so confused. I am hoping that the physio will help again and I wish that they hadn't left me without physio for 12 months because they wanted to see if the injections showed any sign of relief, which they haven't. So feel like I am starting all over again, the physio said I have hardly any pelvic floor muscles and I need to work on them so I am living in hope that it will give me some relief.
Also what has confused me as well is the doctor said after 2 injections and you get some relief France might be an option but I have read on here that if you don't get relief from anything then the operation is your only option.
Thank you for taking the time to read my story and I would be grateful if someone could give me some advice. x Kez
I am a female from the UK and I have been reading stuff on this forum for the last 12 months and I am finally ready to ask for some advice because I just don't know what to do.
Had a definite diagnosis last year of PNE, from a doctor in the UK and the pain is in my rectum. I have had ganglion block and 2 transvaginal nerve block and none have eased the pain. I started physio last year and my symptoms eased a bit but since I have been having the injections I feel like I have just been left to see if they work. I have just started physio again but only had a few sessions so not made any difference yet but I don't know if I have been left too long and everything has seized up.
My life at the moment consists of office work part time stood up for most of it and then having to lie down on my side when I get home and I am usually a positive person but at the moment it's beating me
I think the worst bit is getting your hopes up when doctors tell you that after a few injections things should start to ease up but over the last 12 months I have gone backwards. I have had to stop driving and even walking is affecting me.
I am usually a fit healthy middle aged woman and a lot of the pain used to come from haemorrhoids and then I have had 2 anal stretches because of the haemorrhoids and trouble with constipation. So I think the damage has come from there.
I feel pressure from my family now because I can't go for meals, cinema and family gathering and I am usually the life and soul of the party, my family think I can just go to France have the operation, recover and then you will be back to normal.The doctor has mentioned about France but has since said he has had a patient that has been for the operation and still has to go back to him for injections. He has also said I would still struggle to sit down after the operation so that has confused me even more.
So I just feel that my family think that I am not helping myself because I am not willing to go for an operation that I don't know if it will work or make me worse. This year after all the injections etc I am scared of anyone touching me now but I don't want to stay like this so I am just so confused. I am hoping that the physio will help again and I wish that they hadn't left me without physio for 12 months because they wanted to see if the injections showed any sign of relief, which they haven't. So feel like I am starting all over again, the physio said I have hardly any pelvic floor muscles and I need to work on them so I am living in hope that it will give me some relief.
Also what has confused me as well is the doctor said after 2 injections and you get some relief France might be an option but I have read on here that if you don't get relief from anything then the operation is your only option.
Thank you for taking the time to read my story and I would be grateful if someone could give me some advice. x Kez