thanks for all your words Calluna , helen don and karyn ..they really are appreciated .. Im new her so do aprpeciate very much
. Ive been around living with pudendal problems enough to have written simliar to your thoughts myself but when a specialist plants seeds of doubt it is scary and kinda undermining as this pain makes one vulnerable. and depndant so much on medical profession.
.....yes so i guess Its much appreciated warmly to see others are prepared to speak out about this kind of thing going on where yes in my case I felt it is bit hard to take --anyway ill see where the best solution lies ..
In south africa we dont have too many options but im still luckier than some others ..
you actually have PN specialists in USA?
Im not sure whether to reapproach this pain specialist doctor but it isnt too healthy the sever time contraints etc..so ill see
today lyrica was pretty much useless it hasnt raised the bar much more than 40% in 3 weeks ive had it so far but lets see,,
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TO PUT IN PERSPECTIVE HERE IS A LITTLE ABOUT ME
(kinda qrote this if anythigin also for own purposes to reevaluate my options .,..was helpful
ive actually had it much long er more around 12 years but 5 of the years were much worse than the others. ie ive had years of partial remission
the other 7 years during the 12 it has incapacitated me from driving a car except short distances maybe 15 mins /. ..so i should really should count them but they pale in insignificance to the other 5 years .......when i was effected by pain coming on during the day and by lunch working becoming hell but unavoidable
So maybe my case is a little unusual because Ive had partial remisisons in this sense for several years.
Age now 56. Live in south africa . Started 12 years back .Sitting for many days or 12 hours at a time in IT starting own business for 2-3 years 5 years approx in pain sitting. Always in pain over 12 years in a car.recently pain in sitting and standing.Stretching is a bad idea also. Walking seems to help Always have done regularly 30 mins a day .
initially non bacterial prostatis diagnosis by urologist - refused pain control told to live with it ( with big smile and pat on back- ) .
My General practitioner of 6 years told me it was " psycological reaction to stress fantasy of non existent pain " until ended up in emergnecy then told me it was pudendal neuralgia as the emergency for tramadol injection where that doctor diagnosed but it was still in my head (pudendal neuralgia heals in approx 3 weeks i was told ) .
Read some of "headache in the pelvis " book prompted me to find a PT specialist who did internal examination and found no evidence of pelvic muscles in spasm. She was only person to give me a diagnosis of pudendal neuralgia
Managed to go to a pain specialists in 2011 despite fear of medical profession due to excruciating flare ups in all areas that pudendal nerve affects
.Enquiry to pain specialist ( he is also an aenethetist )re nerve blocks as the he woudnt know where to block an stabbing around was dangerous - he asked me ..where would i block the nerve ? how would I know where, the pudendal nerve being large etc...?
Maybe there isnt proper euipment this country to do guided methods. and diagnose thatw ay i dont know
Started lyrica 7 beg july 2011 offers help some days and very little others. Sometimes 100mg tramadol needed for breakthrough pain . Told i will have to come off medication end september to see if lyrica has stopped the pain permanently. have no choice to got to medical profession to beg for drugs but would rather avoid them wherever possible.
Still wondering why so many doctors refuse to acknowledge nerves can be permanently hurt and do not heal in approx three weeks. Dismayed chronic pain sufferers ( except terminal or cancer patients etc ) seem to never get a consultation in the country i live of more than 10-15 minutes before being shown the door.
.When i can amongst busy schedule of running own business find meditation definately helps delay onset of pain during day, Have hopes for lyrica but hard to tel so early worried about coming off it as pain specialist seems to think can do cold turkey but lyrica sufferers claim its a addictive and can be devastating to come off
In that last year and half my partial remission of year was pretty much brought about by only lying down or standing ...workjng when standing lying on couch when relaxing
But then i got this crazy idea i needed o lose weight and walking wasnt enough and cycled for 3 weeks .The saddle was high and i kept saying oh well your supposed to get used to it ...well i brought on the pain again for last 6 months through this and could kick myself .........
Curious that I had a short 2 week partial remission about 2 months ago ( where sitting pain and standing dissipated totally but not sitting in car pain , when i did three weeks of "earthing " ) in my case 30 min barefoot on grass walking daily .....Thermographs are fascinating on back nerve pain studies forom earthing . (download here )
http://www.earthinginstitute.net/studie ... s_2004.pdf
I am hopeful about lyrica or finding some drug when i can find a doctor who is willing to be educated a bit as recently some days working have been wonderfull on lyrica but currently a lot of dismay about the idea of weaning off after 3 months by current pain speciliast when its hardly helping anyway ( i told him this but he was busy and dint have time or even seem interested to listen on phone )
ill find another general practioner rather but this time -probably a qualified doctor who is more opened minded like those that also practice homeopathy /naturopathy etc and have a genuine and deep interest and curiousity in their profession ).
I dont have the money or the courage to go for surgery due to our exchange rate in S Africa and for lkong time this put me off joining this forum ....but read with interest about it..at least though i sense now drugs are beginning to help....and I have to wonder how many people have this condition(or any chronic pain condition ) in the world who doent even have the computer access that I have ....
Its good to find a community a broad as this seem to be ..and ironically feel i can talk more freely to to strangers here simply because we are known tp each other by sharing so much in our lives which is the same....this pain