Update... hello other Newbies and Helen, Calluna and Violet.
Sorry all, for not posting sooner but pregabalin and tramadol controlled my pain, and I got caught up on real life and housework
I believe I told you that I`d found a pelvic floor therapist who wasn`t too far away?
Her findings and diagnosis seemed as though we were on the `same page` of pudendal neuralgia, so I went off for my 1st acupuncture treatment.
She applied the needles in my gluteal muscle - and in fairness, it worked.
However, she became adamant that mine wasn`t a pudendal problem but muscle related instead.
I was pleased as muscle problems seemed easier to treat and cure, but I still asked her to treat the pudendal nerve in case.
It all went downhill after my 2nd visit though, I had acupuncture needles everywhere and thought that surely these must bring `some` pain relief?
She also worked on my lower back and from then on my
original pain came back with a vengeance- my 1st flare up in weeks - and carried on flaring with no relief from tramadol at all.
I`ve had to increase the pregabalin to 450 daily, ice and tramadol and I`m still not back to where I was before the acupuncture.
Meanwhile, my husband needed treatment on his back and saw our usual osteopath ( who`s very good at her job.)
I would have gone to her initially but before the pain relief kicked in, I wouldn`t have been able to bear her touching me.
I sent a list of my symptoms along with him, to ask,if she could help me?
A message came back that she could- and I had my 1st treatment with her yesterday.
After her examination and questions, she told me of another lady she`d treated, who had exactly the same symptoms and she`s worked on her successfully.
During the treatment- she `found` my pudendal nerve and commented that it may be the cause of my pain- up till now I hadn`t mentioned ` actual` pudendal neuralgia to her!!
I came home and slept for 2 hours but noticed that I didn`t need tramadol for the rest of the day.

I`m due to go back next Thursday.
My lovely GP has referred me back to urology- who I`ve already seen twice before with no result.
But because she`s so willing to help, I feel that I must go along with what she suggests- hopefully, she`s thinking that urology will refer me to womans health and the pelvic clinic at the hospital. She did think that I should be getting therapy on the NHS - so maybe urology is the route to it?
I`m to see them on the 16th Oct.
I hope you`re all getting some relief from pain, I`ll go off now and have a good read of the other threads.
Joy