Hi Matthew,
That would be great if you don't have pudendal neuralgia. But, like you, I am confused too.
I went back and read your initial post. In that post, you describe many of the hallmark symptoms of pudendal neuralgia -- pain in the perineum, pain in the penis, difficulty sitting, pain triggered by sex, etc. My question to your PT would be - which of those symptoms does your PT think are not consistent with pudendal neuralgia? Looks like all of those symptoms are listed on our website's symptom page.
https://www.pudendalhope.info/category/symptoms/
How severe does PN have to be? Seems to me it is really messing up your life.
I guess whether or not you have pudendal neuralgia might depend on what the definition of pudendal neuralgia is. After reading your post, I went and looked up a bunch of websites and articles on the topic and it seems like most of them do not agree exactly on what the definition of pudendal neuralgia is. There seems to be a fine line between neuralgia, neuritis, and neuropathy with some websites saying neuralgia has to be severe and shocking, but others saying it can be pain or irritation/burning. So rather than try to sift through all of the websites and different definitions, I can tell you from my own experience what pudendal neuralgia felt like. Mine started out with very mild symptoms. I never had severe shooting pain like some websites describe neuralgia. Originally it felt more like a bit of an annoying itch and some urinary irritation/burning. Eventually I developed a lot of burning pain in the perineum, and then it later it felt like I had been hit in the crotch with a baseball bat. It became difficult to sit. Sex was difficult. Urinary frequency/urge/burning were difficult. As I healed after surgery the symptoms slowly became mild again.
If your pelvic floor muscles are tight, that leads you to the question, what is causing the muscles to be tight? - which leads you to the chicken and egg discussion which we have had numerous times on this forum over the years. Which came first, the chicken or the egg? Or you could ask - which came first, the pudendal nerve pain or the muscles tightness. Which is causing which? When it comes to the pudendal nerve, can it be the cause of the pelvic floor muscles being tight? Yes, because it innervates some of those muscles. Just the pain of pudendal neuralgia can cause you to tense up your muscles. So, my question to your physical therapist would be -- what is causing my pelvic floor muscles to be tight? Is it possible there was damage to the pudendal nerve in your accident, and that the damaged pudendal nerve is causing the pelvic floor muscles to become tight? Or did the accident damage the muscles causing the muscles to spasm and impinge on the pudendal nerve? I'm not sure anyone can answer those questions with 100% certainty.
Next my question to him would be -- what nerve innervates the penis? If he answers "the pudendal nerve", then ask him why your symptoms aren't consistent with pudendal neuralgia when your pain is in the distribution area of the pudendal nerve. What other nerve would it be?
My 4th question would be -- is there tenderness along the course of your pudendal nerve, particularly at the ischial spine or Alcock's canal when the nerve is pressed on via the rectum? Did he check you internally for pain? When my PT did an internal check she knew immediately that it was the pudendal nerve. So did Dr. Bautrant. So, I think it is important for the PT to check that.
Sorry, I went on too long. Just trying to figure out my own confusion.
Good luck figuring this out.
Violet
PNE since 2002. Started from weightlifting. PNE surgery from Dr. Bautrant, Oct 2004. Pain now is usually a 0 and I can sit for hours on certain chairs. No longer take medication for PNE. Can work full time and do "The Firm" exercise program. 99% cured from PGAD. PNE surgery was right for me but it might not be for you. Do your research.