Hello everyone, I am back with some updates. The condition unfortunately is still there, although it has definitely changed in the meantime (has it ever stayed still?). I've been doing various stretches as recommended by the PT plus some that I came up with that seemed to pull on the affected area, and
certain aspects of the condition did indeed improve. For one, my perineum is practically pain free at this point. For some time around nov-dec, I've had a noticeable inflammatory sensation at the ischial tuberosity (hamstring attachment, basically) while sitting which has definitely improved. I've had a control MRI done to check on my hips again, and the edema in my quadratus femoris muscle has subsided, and the MRI was pretty much "clean". The penile pain comes and goes still sometimes with pauses lasting hours, sometimes merely minutes, but the sensation seems to be duller and less focused on specific areas now - before it was stinging surface pain as if from an embedded splinter or an ingrown hair... now it's often less of an outright "pain" and more like an unpleasant "pulling" sensation, and the pain is more cramp-like.
What's new is that unfortunately the back pain came back, and I'm feeling pain at my inner thigh (slightly lower than before), and on the backside of my left buttock - right where the
sciatic nerve is located. I can trace a direct line of skin sensitivity at the lower edge of my buttock from the sciatic nerve towards the painful inner thigh area, which definitely suggests that these two should be related.
So could all of this be a manifestation of sciatica then? I wasn't aware that the sciatic nerve innervated the genitals, but there's been some talk that it might be contributing some branches...? Right now I'm very suspicious that the penile pain could also be related to the sciatic nerve rather than the pudendal nerve (or at least, not the pudendal nerve alone).
Most stretches didn't get any response from me, but there were some notable ones that yielded a painful or pulling response - notably I did a variation of the wide leg hamstring stretch (
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6L3-BoPEDi4) except I put my legs as wide apart as possible, forming an obtuse angle at the crotch (being careful not to do this on a slippery floor), and when I bent over and reached down, I felt a definite painful pulling sensation right at the "pain epicenter" spot inside the inner thigh (formerly at the perineum), and currently also at my buttock. The other stretch is a bit harder to describe - I stand up, hips rotated out, knees at maybe shoulder width, and I lean over to the side to touch my knee with my elbow while allowing my knees to bend a little; this produces a similar sensation to the previous stretch, but more focused on the inner thigh. Merely flexing my buttock and rotating my hip out produces a response from the sciatic nerve area that's slightly painful but also somewhat relieving, like when somebody massages a painful muscle. (I compare all of these with the healthy right side, which doesn't respond painfully to any of them)
I've dealt with stress a lot in the past few years, but the window when this started occuring was actually a pleasantly stress-free time for me... in fact right now, the only thing truly stressing me out is this stupid annoying condition.
As mentioned in the first post, I've had a spinal MRI done before - there weren't any Tarlov cysts... but since this change happened, I think I might need to get another MRI to see if that slightly bulged disc worsened any. As for where to move the thread, whatever Violet thinks might be the best place would be fine.