Hi Anya,
Belated welcome from me
I don't know if there is anything else to add as you have had fantastic advice from 'the girls' here.
Personally, I wouldn't get too caught up in the idea that you have to have an MRI scan tho', as they often don't show anything for PN, although they can also rule out any lower spine or sacral problems like tarlov cysts and labral hip tears. Results from a scan are great but this may not happen and if it is going to be too costly I would always miss this bit out in favor of a good clinical examination by a clinician who knows their stuff and takes good account of your history and onset of PN problems, as say Dr Hibner would do.
I would also take HM's advice about physiotherapy. The Houston team may be able to suggest someone who is PN aware who is closer?? if they can give you good recommendations that would be ideal. BUT do have PT. . . . .you will need to have your pelvic floor assessed, tight muscles there can cause PN but can also be worked on and hopefully that's all that will be needed
I would also endorse trying medication but see that you have Gabapentin now
hope it does the trick although it is most effective when teamed with an antidepressant. I would say that you are very sensible being cautious about meds in general. Introducing one at a time (if you do need to add more later) is the best way of assessing exactly how and if they are working and what lasting side effects, if any, are associated with them and with any increased doses.
Gabapentin was effective for me to a fair degree, and I did take this drug for quite a while, ramping it right up. I took Cymbalta alongside Gabapentin, still do take it actually although have replaced Gabapentin with Lyrica now.
Some cognitive pain management therapies could be very helpful too. There are some on line sites like
http://goalistics.com/ They offer a pain management course for a fee but if you just subscribe to them they have good regular blogs they will send and you can access their informative back blog catalogue too, all free of charge
Maybe take a look at things like that if and when you have some free time to really relax. Because the pelvis is a complex thing and as PN can sometimes be difficult to assess. . . many people feel overwhelmed with more and more info. It can get a bit much, so try and take things one step at a time. . . . .fingers crossed for your medicaid application.
Glad that you have found Hope although of course I am sorry that you have needed to and that you are suffering badly at the moment.
I'm sure that the help you will get from the 'team' here will help emotionally as well as medically.
Take care,
Helen
ps if the above and other recent posts have a nonsense content, fully or partially, blame my increasing lyrica content