TIS, sometimes you just have to follow your own instincts when you are getting conflicting views from doctors, family and friends. I don't know for sure what your diagnosis is and I don't think anyone can tell you with any certainty that if you just ignore it that it will go away. You may be one of those lucky people who can do something like the mindbody approach and get well. You have a lot of options but I can't say which is the best for you and really no one on this forum can.
ezer wrote:Why the fixation on PNE?
TIS, keep in mind there is a difference between PNE and PN. In your post you wondered if you might have a diagnosis of PN. Maybe Ezer forgot that PN refers to pudendal neuralgia while PNE refers to pudendal neuralgia caused by a nerve entrapment, because he appears to be using those two terms interchangeably. But I just wanted to apologize for the insinuation that was made that you are being OCD about your diagnosis. It's hard not to be when you are experiencing incontinence, right?
According to this government website
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency ... 001407.htm
" Neuralgia is a sharp, shocking pain that follows the path of a nerve and is due to irritation or damage to the nerve."
Symptoms
Increased sensitivity of the skin along the path of the damaged nerve, so that any touch or pressure is felt as pain
Pain along the path of the nerve that is sharp or stabbing, in the same location each episode, comes and goes (intermittent) or is constant and burning, and may get worse when the area is moved
Weakness or complete paralysis of muscles supplied by the same nerve "
The pudendal nerve innervates the bladder sphincter so in my mind, it would be something to consider if you are experiencing urine incontinence.
If a person has neuralgia, it can be difficult to figure out what is causing it. That is the real challenge when it comes to pudendal neuralgia. So, I don't know what your diagnosis is and I can't tell you what your next step should be but you sound like a smart guy and I'm sure you will figure out what route is best for you. You may have seen the flyer on the home page at
http://www.pudendalhope.info/ that lists a lot of the options. Several more recent options have come up since that flyer was posted including electroshock wave therapy, the mindbody approach, and restorative exercise. You can do a search in the search bar to read more about them. There is no one size fits all treatment approach when it comes to chronic pelvic pain. I wish we could say, "do this and you will be cured" but it's not quite that simple.
All the best,
Violet
PNE since 2002. Started from weightlifting. PNE surgery from Dr. Bautrant, Oct 2004. Pain now is usually a 0 and I can sit for hours on certain chairs. No longer take medication for PNE. Can work full time and do "The Firm" exercise program. 99% cured from PGAD. PNE surgery was right for me but it might not be for you. Do your research.