Sunil it sounds like this woman thinks you have a back problem -- does she know about PN? Maybe to be fair to her you could tell her about PN so that she knows it's more than just a back problem and she might understand the sexual issues. You can give her a good time without actual intercourse. If she still isn't happy, maybe she's not the right one for you. If she's really a kind, caring, person she will be understanding, don't you think? If she's not really a kind, caring, person you probably don't want her anyway, right? It's hard to find truly unselfish people in this world. I'm sorry you are going through this.
Violet
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PNE since 2002. Started from weightlifting. PNE surgery from Dr. Bautrant, Oct 2004. Pain now is usually a 0 and I can sit for hours on certain chairs. No longer take medication for PNE. Can work full time and do "The Firm" exercise program. 99% cured from PGAD. PNE surgery was right for me but it might not be for you. Do your research.
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Well, Sunil, I'm not sure about the squats as that is what got me in trouble. Please be careful. So what was your dad's sport that he made a world record in? Don't worry, Sunil -- if you don't break a world record it's OK, you have been a great support to many people on HOPE and I think that is really what counts more than being world famous.
Violet
Violet
PNE since 2002. Started from weightlifting. PNE surgery from Dr. Bautrant, Oct 2004. Pain now is usually a 0 and I can sit for hours on certain chairs. No longer take medication for PNE. Can work full time and do "The Firm" exercise program. 99% cured from PGAD. PNE surgery was right for me but it might not be for you. Do your research.
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Hi sunil,
I'm too unwell to say much. Only that I've been through the mill,too.
I have to say that a lot of people just don't get it! I've got Crohns,too,and virtually no one understands that either.
You certainly gave me a lot of moral support during my visit to Peter Dornan. I'd like to say more but I'm just too fatigued! Sorry.
Jackson
I'm too unwell to say much. Only that I've been through the mill,too.
I have to say that a lot of people just don't get it! I've got Crohns,too,and virtually no one understands that either.
You certainly gave me a lot of moral support during my visit to Peter Dornan. I'd like to say more but I'm just too fatigued! Sorry.
Jackson
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Sunil,
Sometimes you have to look after yourself in order for it to be possible for you to help someone else. I'm just happy to hear you are doing so much better now and I think you did the right thing in pursuing the treatment you needed.
Violet
Sometimes you have to look after yourself in order for it to be possible for you to help someone else. I'm just happy to hear you are doing so much better now and I think you did the right thing in pursuing the treatment you needed.
Violet
PNE since 2002. Started from weightlifting. PNE surgery from Dr. Bautrant, Oct 2004. Pain now is usually a 0 and I can sit for hours on certain chairs. No longer take medication for PNE. Can work full time and do "The Firm" exercise program. 99% cured from PGAD. PNE surgery was right for me but it might not be for you. Do your research.